Love

Love is often confusing, complicated and annoying. Many people, especially girls, go crazy over stupid relationship situations as if they believe they are only going to fall in love once. My friends tend to cry over these issues constantly and not to say I haven't had boy problems of my own, but I often look at situations many different ways. Ask your parents if they were high school sweethearts, or if they didn't have problems while they were together. Its life, and everyone goes through it. You just got to understand that if you lose your first love, or even your second or your third, its not the end and it never is. I personally am not going through a break up, but one of my friends is and the other just got back together with a boyfriend whom just the other day she wanted to kill. I'm not saying don't give second chances, everyone deserves them. But there is a difference from giving another chance to someone you really love, and giving someone another chance simply because you don't want to be alone. Hey, being single isn't the end of the world, its actually quite fun sometimes. You get to play the field and see your options, while in the meanwhile having a blast and not worrying about your boyfriend or girlfriend getting mad because you took a picture with a guy or girl they don't know. Love is complicated and its also inevitable. You don't need someone to make you happy, you have yourself, your friends and your family. There is nothing wrong about wanting to fall in love and have that support and knowledge that someone loves you back but its really not necessary and there's no reason to lose your mind over something so simple. Many people tend to worry that they won't find someone, but if you're meant to find someone you will. My great aunt never got married and I have to say its sad seeing her in a house all by herself, but she has her friends, neighbors and family over all the time. Girls that are 18, 19 (my friends) go CRAZY trying to find someone or trying to fix a relationship that has already failed, but your 19.... thats nothing. You have so much more to live, what's the point in wasting the time you have now trying to find someone that will eventually just fall into your lap because everything happens the way its supposed to in the end. You really don't know the true meaning of love until you have truly found it and when you do you'll realize that with all of those past relationships you just wasted so much time trying to mend them. Every relationship and every bump in life is just a lesson learned and its part of the plan to help you better yourself and help you not just settle down with something or someone that isn't right for you.

True love is the souls recognition of its counterpoint in another (stole it from wedding crashers, yes). But when you find true love, you'll know and there will be nothing that can take it from you because it is simply SUPPOSED to stay with you.